Fixes reading paper bundles and removing accessories on other people (#21214)

Apparently the adjacent check wasn't set properly on these two. Also it
fixes that when removing someone's accessory, it tried to apply some
modifiers to the one removing it instead of the one wearing it.

code/modules/clothing/clothing_accessories.dm

@@ -137,17 +137,14 @@
 	update_accessory_slowdown()
 	recalculate_body_temperature_change()
 
-/obj/item/clothing/proc/remove_accessory(mob/user, obj/item/clothing/accessory/A)
+/obj/item/clothing/proc/remove_accessory(mob/wearer, obj/item/clothing/accessory/A)
 	if(!(A in accessories))
 		return
 
-	if(use_check_and_message(user))
-		return
-
-	A.on_removed(user)
+	A.on_removed(wearer)
 	LAZYREMOVE(accessories, A)
 	update_clothing_icon()
-	update_accessory_slowdown(user)
+	update_accessory_slowdown(wearer)
 	recalculate_body_temperature_change()
 
 /obj/item/clothing/proc/remove_accessory_verb()
@@ -187,6 +184,9 @@
 	else
 		A = accessories[1]
 
+	if(use_check_and_message(user))
+		return
+
 	remove_accessory(usr, A)
 
 	if(try_reopen_radial_after_removal)

code/modules/mob/living/carbon/human/stripping.dm

@@ -82,7 +82,7 @@
 				user.visible_message(SPAN_DANGER("\The [user] tears off \the [A] from [src]'s [suit.name]!"))
 			attack_log += "\[[time_stamp()]\] <font color='orange'>Has had \the [A] removed by [user.name] ([user.ckey])</font>"
 			user.attack_log += "\[[time_stamp()]\] <span class='warning'>Attempted to remove [name]'s ([ckey]) [A.name]</span>"
-			suit.remove_accessory(user, A)
+			suit.remove_accessory(src, A)
 			return 1
 
 	// Are we placing or stripping?