Key instead of ckey for user facing logs and ui (#39009)

* converts to using key instead of ckey for user facing logs and ui

* more key_name for airlock wires

* futureproofing check for if key changes

* --onlyckeymatch script argument and fail/success counter

* fix

SQL/tgstation_schema_prefixed.sql

@@ -309,6 +309,7 @@ DROP TABLE IF EXISTS `SS13_player`;
 /*!40101 SET character_set_client = utf8 */;
 CREATE TABLE `SS13_player` (
   `ckey` varchar(32) NOT NULL,
+  `byond_key` varchar(32) DEFAULT NULL,
   `firstseen` datetime NOT NULL,
   `firstseen_round_id` int(11) unsigned NOT NULL,
   `lastseen` datetime NOT NULL,