Adds new helper: use_tool, shakes things up in tool code (#35095)

* small changes

* Adds a use_tool helper and changes some tools to use it

* Ports most tool operations to use_tool

* Converts more tool operations to use_tool and tool_act

* Changes some things to default_unfasten_wrench

* Improves tool_behavior support in mech construction

* Code review memes

* Fixes all instant use_tool calls failing

* Code improvements

* merge fixes

code/game/objects/structures/table_frames.dm

@@ -25,7 +25,7 @@
 	if(istype(I, /obj/item/wrench))
 		to_chat(user, "<span class='notice'>You start disassembling [src]...</span>")
 		playsound(src.loc, I.usesound, 50, 1)
-		if(do_after(user, 30*I.toolspeed, target = src))
+		if(I.use_tool(src, user, 30))
 			playsound(src.loc, 'sound/items/deconstruct.ogg', 50, 1)
 			deconstruct(TRUE)
 	else if(istype(I, /obj/item/stack/sheet/plasteel))