Adds note secrecy to allow hiding notes from non-admins (#20280)

* adds note secrecy to allow hiding notes from non-admins

* fixes not seeing own notes

* renames notes to notes memory

* notes secrecy defaults to 1

* prompt during note creation for note secrecy

* Update NewBan.dm

* Update topic.dm

* Update sql_notes.dm

* Update client_procs.dm

* webclient tabbing error fix

* made cid detector notes non-secret

code/modules/client/client_procs.dm

@@ -405,7 +405,7 @@ var/next_external_rsc = 0
 	if (query_get_notes.NextRow())
 		if (query_get_notes.item[1] == adminckey)
 			return
-	add_note(ckey, "Detected as using a cid randomizer.", null, adminckey, logged = 0)
+	add_note(ckey, "Detected as using a cid randomizer.", null, adminckey, 0, null, 0)
 
 
 /client/proc/check_ip_intel()

code/modules/client/verbs/ooc.dm

@@ -151,7 +151,7 @@ var/global/normal_ooc_colour = OOC_COLOR
 		usr << "<span class='notice'>Sorry, that function is not enabled on this server.</span>"
 		return
 
-	show_note(usr, null, 1)
+	show_note(usr.ckey, null, 1)
 
 /client/proc/ignore_key(client)
 	var/client/C = client