Minor cleanup for machine frames & boulder machines (#81706)

## About The Pull Request
- Moves call to `update_appearance(UPDATE_ICON_STATE)` to
`/obj/structure/frame/Initialize()` for both computer & machine frames
cause both do that anyway
- Fixes wrench screentip for machine frames
- Screw driving an incomplete machine frame won't display the "you need
to unsecure it first" along with "missing components" balloon alerts
- Moved boulder refinery code to `item_interaction()`
- Autodoc some golem procs for refineries
- Gives the secured machine frame an icon state of `box_1` so it looks
wired in the rcd menu as well
- Fixes screentips(like wrench act) for boulder machines

## Changelog
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fix: fixes toolact screentips & balloon alerts for boulder machines &
machine frame
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code/modules/mining/boulder_processing/refinery.dm

@@ -89,5 +89,3 @@
 	rockman.visible_message(span_warning("[rockman] is processed by [src]!"), span_userdanger("You get melted into rock by [src]!"))
 	rockman.investigate_log("was melted by [src] for being a golem", INVESTIGATE_DEATHS)
 	rockman.dust()
-	addtimer(CALLBACK(GLOBAL_PROC, GLOBAL_PROC_REF(playsound), src, 'sound/machines/ding.ogg', 50, TRUE, SHORT_RANGE_SOUND_EXTRARANGE), 2.5 SECONDS)
-	return TRUE