event based incapicated and able_to_run (#86031)

## About The Pull Request
this is a revival of #82635 . i got permission from potato to reopen
this, he did almost all the work. i only just solved the conflicts and
fixed all the bugs that were preventing the original from being merged
(but it should be TMed first)

## Why It's Good For The Game
slightly improves the performance of basic mob AI

## Changelog
🆑
LemonInTheDark
refactor: able_to_run and incapacitated have been refactored to be event
based
/🆑

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Co-authored-by: LemonInTheDark <58055496+LemonInTheDark@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: ZephyrTFA <matthew@tfaluc.com>

code/modules/mod/mod_activation.dm

@@ -17,8 +17,8 @@
 	if(!pick)
 		return
 	var/part_reference = display_names[pick]
-	var/obj/item/part = locate(part_reference) in parts
-	if(!istype(part) || user.incapacitated())
+	var/obj/item/part = locate(part_reference) in mod_parts
+	if(!istype(part) || user.incapacitated)
 		return
 	if(active || activating)
 		balloon_alert(user, "deactivate the suit first!")

code/modules/mod/mod_control.dm

@@ -233,7 +233,7 @@
 			balloon_alert(wearer, "retract parts first!")
 			playsound(src, 'sound/machines/scanbuzz.ogg', 25, FALSE, SILENCED_SOUND_EXTRARANGE)
 			return
-	if(!wearer.incapacitated())
+	if(!wearer.incapacitated)
 		var/atom/movable/screen/inventory/hand/ui_hand = over_object
 		if(wearer.putItemFromInventoryInHandIfPossible(src, ui_hand.held_index))
 			add_fingerprint(user)

code/modules/mod/mod_paint.dm

@@ -126,7 +126,7 @@
 	mod.theme.set_skin(mod, pick)
 
 /obj/item/mod/paint/proc/check_menu(obj/item/mod/control/mod, mob/user)
-	if(user.incapacitated() || !user.is_holding(src) || !mod || mod.active || mod.activating)
+	if(user.incapacitated || !user.is_holding(src) || !mod || mod.active || mod.activating)
 		return FALSE
 	return TRUE
 

code/modules/mod/modules/_module.dm

@@ -200,7 +200,7 @@
 
 /// Called when an activated module without a device is used
 /obj/item/mod/module/proc/on_select_use(atom/target)
-	if(!(allow_flags & MODULE_ALLOW_INCAPACITATED) && mod.wearer.incapacitated(IGNORE_GRAB))
+	if(!(allow_flags & MODULE_ALLOW_INCAPACITATED) && INCAPACITATED_IGNORING(mod.wearer, INCAPABLE_GRAB))
 		return FALSE
 	mod.wearer.face_atom(target)
 	if(!used())

code/modules/mod/modules/module_kinesis.dm

@@ -67,7 +67,7 @@
 	clear_grab(playsound = !deleting)
 
 /obj/item/mod/module/anomaly_locked/kinesis/process(seconds_per_tick)
-	if(!mod.wearer.client || mod.wearer.incapacitated(IGNORE_GRAB))
+	if(!mod.wearer.client || INCAPACITATED_IGNORING(mod.wearer, INCAPABLE_GRAB))
 		clear_grab()
 		return
 	if(!range_check(grabbed_atom))