Refactor, improve, and rename canUseTopic to be can_perform_action (#73434)

This builds on what #69790 did and improved the code even further.
Notable things:
- `Topic()` is a deprecated proc in our codebase (replaced with
Javascript tgui) so it makes sense to rename `canUseTopic` to
`can_perform_action` which is more straightforward in what it does.
- Positional and named arguments have been converted into a easier to
use `action_bitflag`
- The bitflags adds some new checks you can use like: `NEED_GRAVITY |
NEED_LITERACY | NEED_LIGHT` when you want to perform an action.
- Redundant, duplicate, or dead code has been removed.
- Fixes several runtimes where `canUseTopic` was being called without a
proper target (IV drips, gibber, food processor)
- Better documentation for the proc and bitflags with examples

code/modules/cards/deck/deck.dm

@@ -143,7 +143,7 @@
 				other_players = other_players)
 
 /obj/item/toy/cards/deck/attack_hand(mob/living/user, list/modifiers, flip_card = FALSE)
-	if(!ishuman(user) || !user.canUseTopic(src, be_close = TRUE, no_dexterity = TRUE, no_tk = TRUE, need_hands = !iscyborg(user)))
+	if(!ishuman(user) || !user.can_perform_action(src, NEED_DEXTERITY|FORBID_TELEKINESIS_REACH))
 		return
 
 	var/obj/item/toy/singlecard/card = draw(user)
@@ -160,7 +160,7 @@
 	return SECONDARY_ATTACK_CANCEL_ATTACK_CHAIN
 
 /obj/item/toy/cards/deck/AltClick(mob/living/user)
-	if(user.canUseTopic(src, be_close = TRUE, no_dexterity = TRUE, no_tk = TRUE, need_hands = !iscyborg(user)))
+	if(user.can_perform_action(src, NEED_DEXTERITY|FORBID_TELEKINESIS_REACH))
 		if(wielded)
 			shuffle_cards(user)
 		else