Micro-optimize qdel by only permitting one parameter (#80628)

Productionizes #80615.

The core optimization is this:

```patch
-	var/hint = to_delete.Destroy(arglist(args.Copy(2))) // Let our friend know they're about to get fucked up.
+	var/hint = to_delete.Destroy(force) // Let our friend know they're about to get fucked up.
```

We avoid a heap allocation in the form of copying the args over to a new
list. A/B testing shows this results in 33% better overtime, and in a
real round shaving off a full second of self time and 0.4 seconds of
overtime--both of these would be doubled in the event this is merged as
the new proc was only being run 50% of the time.

code/datums/components/singularity.dm

@@ -108,7 +108,7 @@
 
 	GLOB.singularities |= src
 
-/datum/component/singularity/Destroy(force, silent)
+/datum/component/singularity/Destroy(force)
 	GLOB.singularities -= src
 	consume_callback = null
 	target = null