Micro-optimize qdel by only permitting one parameter (#80628)

Productionizes #80615.

The core optimization is this:

```patch
-	var/hint = to_delete.Destroy(arglist(args.Copy(2))) // Let our friend know they're about to get fucked up.
+	var/hint = to_delete.Destroy(force) // Let our friend know they're about to get fucked up.
```

We avoid a heap allocation in the form of copying the args over to a new
list. A/B testing shows this results in 33% better overtime, and in a
real round shaving off a full second of self time and 0.4 seconds of
overtime--both of these would be doubled in the event this is merged as
the new proc was only being run 50% of the time.

code/modules/bitrunning/components/netpod_healing.dm

@@ -13,7 +13,7 @@
 
 	START_PROCESSING(SSmachines, src)
 
-/datum/component/netpod_healing/Destroy(force, silent)
+/datum/component/netpod_healing/Destroy(force)
 	STOP_PROCESSING(SSmachines, src)
 
 	var/mob/living/carbon/player = parent

code/modules/bitrunning/components/npc_friendly.dm

@@ -28,7 +28,7 @@
 	previous_factions.Add(player.faction)
 	player.faction |= npc_factions
 
-/datum/component/npc_friendly/Destroy(force, silent)
+/datum/component/npc_friendly/Destroy(force)
 	. = ..()
 
 	var/mob/living/player = parent