Unequip refactor fix pack (#24040)

* Fixes drag drop deletion

* Fix it for clothing as well

* Do it properly

* Various other incap checks I noticed from the unequip refactor

* Time to generalize this shitty shit

* PADDLING!!!

* A whole bunch of ree

code/modules/modular_computers/computers/item/computer_components.dm

@@ -24,6 +24,7 @@
 
 	user << "<span class='notice'>You install \the [H] into \the [src].</span>"
 	H.holder = src
+	H.forceMove(src)
 	H.on_install(src, user)
 
 

code/modules/modular_computers/hardware/card_slot.dm

@@ -68,14 +68,18 @@
 
 	var/ejected = 0
 	if(stored_card && (!slot || slot == 1))
-		stored_card.forceMove(get_turf(src))
-		stored_card.verb_pickup()
+		if(user)
+			user.put_in_hands(stored_card)
+		else
+			stored_card.forceMove(get_turf(src))
 		stored_card = null
 		ejected++
 
 	if(stored_card2 && (!slot || slot == 2))
-		stored_card2.forceMove(get_turf(src))
-		stored_card2.verb_pickup()
+		if(user)
+			user.put_in_hands(stored_card2)
+		else
+			stored_card2.forceMove(get_turf(src))
 		stored_card2 = null
 		ejected++