moves abstract_type up to datum, spawners wont spawn them (#92909)

## About The Pull Request
moves all implementations (im aware of) for "Im a parent type dont spawn
me please" to the datum layer to standardized behavior
adds a standerized proc for filtering out "bad" items that we dont want
spawning. applies to it the subtype vendor, gifts, and a new spawner and
mystery box for a random gun (neither playerfacing)
"port" of https://github.com/shiptest-ss13/Shiptest/pull/4621



https://github.com/user-attachments/assets/22f6f0b2-b44e-411a-b3dc-6b97dc0287aa

small warning: I dont have EVERY abstract type defined right now but,
ive done a good enough job for now. Im tired of data entry rn
## Why It's Good For The Game
standardizing behavior. Might be a micro hit to performance however

having this lets us not rely on icon state to determine whether
something is a parent type and makes it much easier to tell something is
a parent type (could be applied further to things like admin spawning
menus and things like that).

need feedback on if this is actually good for the game.
## Changelog
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add: Soda cans show up in the silver slime drink table.
add: Examine tag for items that are not mean to show up ingame.
refactor: Standardizes how gifts rule out abstract types.
fix: gifts no longer check if something has an inhand, massively
expanding the list of potential items.
/🆑

code/modules/spells/spell_types/right_and_wrong.dm

@@ -11,6 +11,8 @@ GLOBAL_DATUM(mass_teaching, /datum/summon_things_controller/spellbook_entry)
 // 1 in 50 chance of getting something really special.
 #define SPECIALIST_MAGIC_PROB 2
 
+GLOBAL_LIST_INIT(summoned_all_guns, get_sane_item_types(/obj/item/gun))
+
 GLOBAL_LIST_INIT(summoned_guns, list(
 	/obj/item/gun/energy/disabler,
 	/obj/item/gun/energy/e_gun,