thanks to Vallat for pointing this out
whoops turns out most verbs havent been queued since may 11th because I made /datum/controller/subsystem/verb_manager have the SS_NO_INIT flag, without also removing a check in verb_manager/proc/can_queue_verb() that stops the verb callback from being queued if the subsystem isnt initialized yet. since subsystems with SS_NO_INIT obviously never have initialized set to TRUE, this always failed for every verb manager subsystem except for SSinput (because it doesnt have SS_NO_INIT).
also adds a debug var to force a subsystem to always queue incoming verbs if possible.
now the default verb management subsystem, and speech_controller will successfully queue verbs again. SSinput always queued verbs so that shouldnt change.
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