Merge pull request #13588 from dearmochi/more-fix-stuff

More fixes: Custodial Locator, e-swords, upside-down-itis and grabbing

code/modules/mob/living/living_defense.dm

@@ -260,8 +260,6 @@
 	add_attack_logs(user, src, "Grabbed passively", ATKLOG_ALL)
 
 	var/obj/item/grab/G = new /obj/item/grab(user, src)
-	if(buckled)
-		to_chat(user, "<span class='notice'>You cannot grab [src]; [p_they()] [p_are()] buckled in!</span>")
 	if(!G)	//the grab will delete itself in New if src is anchored
 		return 0
 	user.put_in_active_hand(G)

code/modules/mob/mob_grab.dm

@@ -53,12 +53,11 @@
 	hud.master = src
 
 	//check if assailant is grabbed by victim as well
-	if(assailant.grabbed_by)
-		for(var/obj/item/grab/G in assailant.grabbed_by)
-			if(G.assailant == affecting && G.affecting == assailant)
-				G.dancing = 1
-				G.adjust_position()
-				dancing = 1
+	for(var/obj/item/grab/G in assailant.grabbed_by)
+		if(G.assailant == affecting && G.affecting == assailant)
+			G.dancing = 1
+			G.adjust_position()
+			dancing = 1
 
 	clean_grabbed_by(assailant, affecting)
 	adjust_position()
@@ -276,7 +275,7 @@
 		assailant.visible_message("<span class='warning'>[assailant] has reinforced [assailant.p_their()] grip on [affecting] (now neck)!</span>")
 		state = GRAB_NECK
 		icon_state = "grabbed+1"
-		assailant.setDir(get_dir(assailant, affecting))
+
 		add_attack_logs(assailant, affecting, "Neck grabbed", ATKLOG_ALL)
 		if(!iscarbon(assailant))
 			affecting.LAssailant = null
@@ -296,7 +295,7 @@
 		assailant.next_move = world.time + 10
 		if(!affecting.get_organ_slot("breathing_tube"))
 			affecting.AdjustLoseBreath(1)
-		affecting.setDir(WEST)
+
 	adjust_position()
 
 //This is used to make sure the victim hasn't managed to yackety sax away before using the grab.
@@ -433,9 +432,10 @@
 
 /obj/item/grab/Destroy()
 	if(affecting)
-		affecting.pixel_x = 0
-		affecting.pixel_y = 0 //used to be an animate, not quick enough for del'ing
-		affecting.layer = initial(affecting.layer)
+		if(!affecting.buckled)
+			affecting.pixel_x = 0
+			affecting.pixel_y = 0 //used to be an animate, not quick enough for del'ing
+			affecting.layer = initial(affecting.layer)
 		affecting.grabbed_by -= src
 		affecting = null
 	if(assailant)