Add themselves as a pronoun helper, fixes some usages of it (#20184)

* Add themselves helper

* Testing and replacing

* Fixes some non-standard usages

code/game/objects/buckling.dm

@@ -78,7 +78,7 @@
 		M.set_body_position(STANDING_UP)
 	else
 		M.set_body_position(LYING_DOWN)
-	
+
 	if(M.pulling && M.pulling == src)
 		M.stop_pulling()
 
@@ -143,7 +143,7 @@
 	. = buckle_mob(M, check_loc = check_loc)
 	if(.)
 		if(M == user)
-			M.visible_message("<span class='notice'>[M] buckles [M.p_them()]self to [src].</span>",\
+			M.visible_message("<span class='notice'>[M] buckles [M.p_themselves()] to [src].</span>",\
 				"<span class='notice'>You buckle yourself to [src].</span>",\
 				"<span class='italics'>You hear metal clanking.</span>")
 		else
@@ -159,7 +159,7 @@
 				"<span class='notice'>[user] unbuckles you from [src].</span>",\
 				"<span class='italics'>You hear metal clanking.</span>")
 		else
-			M.visible_message("<span class='notice'>[M] unbuckles [M.p_them()]self from [src].</span>",\
+			M.visible_message("<span class='notice'>[M] unbuckles [M.p_themselves()] from [src].</span>",\
 				"<span class='notice'>You unbuckle yourself from [src].</span>",\
 				"<span class='italics'>You hear metal clanking.</span>")
 		add_fingerprint(user)

code/game/objects/items.dm

@@ -587,7 +587,7 @@ GLOBAL_DATUM_INIT(welding_sparks, /mutable_appearance, mutable_appearance('icons
 							"<span class='userdanger'>[user] stabs you in the eye with [src]!</span>")
 	else
 		user.visible_message( \
-			"<span class='danger'>[user] has stabbed [user.p_them()]self in the eyes with [src]!</span>", \
+			"<span class='danger'>[user] has stabbed [user.p_themselves()] in the eyes with [src]!</span>", \
 			"<span class='userdanger'>You stab yourself in the eyes with [src]!</span>" \
 		)
 

code/game/objects/items/theft_items.dm

@@ -36,7 +36,7 @@
 		radiation_pulse(src, 400, 2)
 
 /obj/item/nuke_core/suicide_act(mob/user)
-	user.visible_message("<span class='suicide'>[user] is rubbing [src] against [user.p_them()]self! It looks like [user.p_theyre()] trying to commit suicide!</span>")
+	user.visible_message("<span class='suicide'>[user] is rubbing [src] against [user.p_themselves()]! It looks like [user.p_theyre()] trying to commit suicide!</span>")
 	return TOXLOSS
 
 /obj/item/nuke_core/plutonium //The steal objective, so it doesnt mess with the SM sliver on pinpointers and objectives

code/game/objects/items/tools/wrench.dm

@@ -21,7 +21,7 @@
 	tool_behaviour = TOOL_WRENCH
 
 /obj/item/wrench/suicide_act(mob/user)
-	user.visible_message("<span class='suicide'>[user] is beating [user.p_them()]self to death with [src]! It looks like [user.p_theyre()] trying to commit suicide!</span>")
+	user.visible_message("<span class='suicide'>[user] is beating [user.p_themselves()] to death with [src]! It looks like [user.p_theyre()] trying to commit suicide!</span>")
 	playsound(loc, 'sound/weapons/genhit.ogg', 50, 1, -1)
 	return BRUTELOSS
 

code/game/objects/items/weapons/batons.dm

@@ -40,8 +40,8 @@
 
 	add_fingerprint(user)
 	if(HAS_TRAIT(user, TRAIT_CLUMSY) && prob(50))
-		user.visible_message("<span class='danger'>[user] accidentally clubs [user.p_them()]self with [src]!</span>", \
-							"<span class='userdanger'>You accidentally club yourself with [src]!</span>")
+		user.visible_message("<span class='danger'>[user] accidentally clubs [user.p_themselves()] with [src]!</span>", \
+							 "<span class='userdanger'>You accidentally club yourself with [src]!</span>")
 		user.KnockDown(knockdown_duration)
 		if(ishuman(user))
 			var/mob/living/carbon/human/H = user

code/game/objects/items/weapons/courtroom.dm

@@ -14,7 +14,7 @@
 	resistance_flags = FLAMMABLE
 
 /obj/item/gavelhammer/suicide_act(mob/user)
-	user.visible_message("<span class='suicide'>[user] has sentenced [user.p_them()]self to death with [src]! It looks like [user.p_theyre()] trying to commit suicide.</span>")
+	user.visible_message("<span class='suicide'>[user] has sentenced [user.p_themselves()] to death with [src]! It looks like [user.p_theyre()] trying to commit suicide.</span>")
 	playsound(loc, 'sound/items/gavel.ogg', 50, 1, -1)
 	return BRUTELOSS
 

code/game/objects/items/weapons/dnascrambler.dm

@@ -27,7 +27,7 @@
 		return
 
 	if(M == user)
-		user.visible_message("<span class='danger'>[user] injects [user.p_them()]self with [src]!</span>")
+		user.visible_message("<span class='danger'>[user] injects [user.p_themselves()] with [src]!</span>")
 		injected(user, user)
 	else
 		user.visible_message("<span class='danger'>[user] is trying to inject [M] with [src]!</span>")

code/game/objects/items/weapons/holy_weapons.dm

@@ -31,7 +31,7 @@
 				variant_icons += list(initial(rod.name) = image(icon = initial(rod.icon), icon_state = initial(rod.icon_state)))
 
 /obj/item/nullrod/suicide_act(mob/user)
-	user.visible_message("<span class='suicide'>[user] is killing [user.p_them()]self with \the [src.name]! It looks like [user.p_theyre()] trying to get closer to god!</span>")
+	user.visible_message("<span class='suicide'>[user] is killing [user.p_themselves()] with \the [src.name]! It looks like [user.p_theyre()] trying to get closer to god!</span>")
 	return BRUTELOSS|FIRELOSS
 
 /obj/item/nullrod/attack(mob/M, mob/living/carbon/user)

code/game/objects/items/weapons/melee/misc.dm

@@ -17,7 +17,7 @@
 
 
 /obj/item/melee/chainofcommand/suicide_act(mob/user)
-	to_chat(viewers(user), "<span class='suicide'>[user] is strangling [user.p_them()]self with [src]! It looks like [user.p_theyre()] trying to commit suicide.</span>")
+	to_chat(viewers(user), "<span class='suicide'>[user] is strangling [user.p_themselves()] with [src]! It looks like [user.p_theyre()] trying to commit suicide.</span>")
 	return OXYLOSS
 
 /obj/item/melee/rapier

code/game/objects/items/weapons/storage/bible.dm

@@ -93,13 +93,13 @@
 		var/mob/living/carbon/human/H = M
 		if(prob(60))
 			bless(H)
-			H.visible_message("<span class='danger>[user] heals [H == user ? "[user.p_them()]self" : "[H]"] with the power of [deity_name]!</span>",
+			H.visible_message("<span class='danger>[user] heals [H == user ? "[user.p_themselves()]" : "[H]"] with the power of [deity_name]!</span>",
 				"<span class='danger'>May the power of [deity_name] compel you to be healed!</span>")
 			playsound(loc, "punch", 25, 1, -1)
 		else
 			M.adjustBrainLoss(10)
 			to_chat(M, "<span class='warning'>You feel dumber.</span>")
-			H.visible_message("<span class='danger'>[user] beats [H == user ? "[user.p_them()]self" : "[H]"] over the head with [src]!</span>")
+			H.visible_message("<span class='danger'>[user] beats [H == user ? "[user.p_themselves()]" : "[H]"] over the head with [src]!</span>")
 			playsound(src.loc, "punch", 25, 1, -1)
 	else
 		M.visible_message("<span class='danger'>[user] smacks [M]'s lifeless corpse with [src].</span>")

code/game/objects/items/weapons/stunbaton.dm

@@ -152,7 +152,7 @@
 /obj/item/melee/baton/attack(mob/M, mob/living/user)
 	if(turned_on && HAS_TRAIT(user, TRAIT_CLUMSY) && prob(50))
 		if(baton_stun(user, user, skip_cooldown = TRUE)) // for those super edge cases where you clumsy baton yourself in quick succession
-			user.visible_message("<span class='danger'>[user] accidentally hits [user.p_them()]self with [src]!</span>",
+			user.visible_message("<span class='danger'>[user] accidentally hits [user.p_themselves()] with [src]!</span>",
 							"<span class='userdanger'>You accidentally hit yourself with [src]!</span>")
 		return
 
@@ -224,7 +224,7 @@
 	if(turned_on && cell?.charge)
 		flick("baton_active", source)
 		baton_stun(user, user, skip_cooldown = TRUE)
-		user.visible_message("<span class='warning'>[user] shocks [user.p_them()]self while attempting to wash the active [src]!</span>",
+		user.visible_message("<span class='warning'>[user] shocks [user.p_themselves()] while attempting to wash the active [src]!</span>",
 							"<span class='userdanger'>You unwisely attempt to wash [src] while it's still on.</span>")
 		return TRUE
 	..()

code/game/objects/items/weapons/teleprod.dm

@@ -10,7 +10,7 @@
 	if(!turned_on)
 		return
 	if(HAS_TRAIT(user, TRAIT_CLUMSY) && prob(50))
-		user.visible_message("<span class='danger'>[user] accidentally hits [user.p_them()]self with [src]!</span>",
+		user.visible_message("<span class='danger'>[user] accidentally hits [user.p_themselves()] with [src]!</span>",
 			"<span class='userdanger'>You accidentally hit yourself with [src]!</span>")
 		deductcharge(hitcost)
 		do_teleport(user, get_turf(user), 50)//honk honk

code/game/objects/items/weapons/weaponry.dm

@@ -17,7 +17,7 @@
 	resistance_flags = FIRE_PROOF
 
 /obj/item/banhammer/suicide_act(mob/user)
-	visible_message("<span class='suicide'>[user] is hitting [user.p_them()]self with [src]! It looks like [user.p_theyre()] trying to ban [user.p_them()]self from life.</span>")
+	visible_message("<span class='suicide'>[user] is hitting [user.p_themselves()] with [src]! It looks like [user.p_theyre()] trying to ban [user.p_themselves()] from life.</span>")
 	return BRUTELOSS|FIRELOSS|TOXLOSS|OXYLOSS
 
 /obj/item/banhammer/attack(mob/M, mob/user)
@@ -38,7 +38,7 @@
 	attack_verb = list("attacked", "slashed", "stabbed", "sliced", "torn", "ripped", "diced", "cut")
 
 /obj/item/sord/suicide_act(mob/user)
-	user.visible_message("<span class='suicide'>[user] is trying to impale [user.p_them()]self with [src]! It might be a suicide attempt if it weren't so shitty.</span>", \
+	user.visible_message("<span class='suicide'>[user] is trying to impale [user.p_themselves()] with [src]! It might be a suicide attempt if it weren't so shitty.</span>", \
 	"<span class='suicide'>You try to impale yourself with [src], but it's USELESS...</span>")
 	return SHAME