Them

code/game/objects/effects/spiders.dm

@@ -219,7 +219,7 @@
 						if(C)
 							S.key = C.key
 							if(S.master_commander)
-								to_chat(S, "<span class='biggerdanger'>You are a spider who is loyal to [S.master_commander], obey [S.master_commander]'s every order and assist them in completing [S.master_commander.p_their()] goals at any cost.</span>")
+								to_chat(S, "<span class='biggerdanger'>You are a spider who is loyal to [S.master_commander], obey [S.master_commander]'s every order and assist [S.master_commander.p_them()] in completing [S.master_commander.p_their()] goals at any cost.</span>")
 			qdel(src)
 
 /obj/effect/decal/cleanable/spiderling_remains

code/game/objects/items.dm

@@ -450,7 +450,7 @@ var/global/image/fire_overlay = image("icon" = 'icons/goonstation/effects/fire.d
 							"<span class='userdanger'>[user] stabs you in the eye with [src]!</span>")
 	else
 		user.visible_message( \
-			"<span class='danger'>[user] has stabbed themself in the eyes with [src]!</span>", \
+			"<span class='danger'>[user] has stabbed [user.p_them()]self in the eyes with [src]!</span>", \
 			"<span class='userdanger'>You stab yourself in the eyes with [src]!</span>" \
 		)
 

code/game/objects/items/devices/flash.dm

@@ -168,9 +168,9 @@
 						resisted = 1
 
 					if(resisted)
-						to_chat(user, "<span class='warning'>This mind seems resistant to the [src.name]!</span>")
+						to_chat(user, "<span class='warning'>This mind seems resistant to the [name]!</span>")
 				else
-					to_chat(user, "<span class='warning'>They must be conscious before you can convert them!</span>")
+					to_chat(user, "<span class='warning'>They must be conscious before you can convert [M.p_them()]!</span>")
 			else
 				to_chat(user, "<span class='warning'>This mind is so vacant that it is not susceptible to influence!</span>")
 

code/game/objects/items/weapons/holy_weapons.dm

@@ -602,7 +602,7 @@
 			faith -= 100
 	else if(target.mind.assigned_role == "Civilian")
 		if(prob(55))	//55% chance to take LESS faith than normal, because civies are stupid and easily manipulated
-			to_chat(missionary, "<span class='notice'>Your message seems to resound well with [target]; converting them was much easier than expected.</span>")
+			to_chat(missionary, "<span class='notice'>Your message seems to resound well with [target]; converting [target.p_them()] was much easier than expected.</span>")
 			faith -= 50
 		else		//45% chance to take the normal 100 faith cost
 			to_chat(missionary, "<span class='notice'>You successfully convert [target] to your cause. The following grows because of your faith!</span>")

code/game/objects/items/weapons/implants/implant_traitor.dm

@@ -55,7 +55,7 @@
 			ticker.mode.implanter[ref] = implanters
 			ticker.mode.traitors += H.mind
 			H.mind.special_role = SPECIAL_ROLE_TRAITOR
-			to_chat(H, "<span class='warning'><B>You're now completely loyal to [user.name]!</B> You now must lay down your life to protect them and assist in their goals at any cost.</span>")
+			to_chat(H, "<span class='warning'><B>You're now completely loyal to [user.name]!</B> You now must lay down your life to protect [user.p_them()] and assist in [user.p_their()] goals at any cost.</span>")
 			var/datum/objective/protect/mindslave/MS = new
 			MS.owner = H.mind
 			MS.target = user.mind

code/game/objects/items/weapons/stunbaton.dm

@@ -104,7 +104,7 @@
 
 /obj/item/melee/baton/attack(mob/M, mob/living/user)
 	if(status && (CLUMSY in user.mutations) && prob(50))
-		user.visible_message("<span class='danger'>[user] accidentally hits themself with [src]!</span>", \
+		user.visible_message("<span class='danger'>[user] accidentally hits [user.p_them()]self with [src]!</span>", \
 							"<span class='userdanger'>You accidentally hit yourself with [src]!</span>")
 		user.Weaken(stunforce*3)
 		deductcharge(hitcost)
@@ -175,7 +175,7 @@
 			user.Weaken(stunforce)
 			user.stuttering = stunforce
 			deductcharge(hitcost)
-			user.visible_message("<span class='warning'>[user] shocks themself while attempting to wash the active [src]!</span>", \
+			user.visible_message("<span class='warning'>[user] shocks [user.p_them()]self while attempting to wash the active [src]!</span>", \
 								"<span class='userdanger'>You unwisely attempt to wash [src] while it's still on.</span>")
 			playsound(src, "sparks", 50, 1)
 			return 1

code/game/objects/items/weapons/tape.dm

@@ -29,7 +29,7 @@
 			if(M == user)
 				to_chat(user, "You cover your own mouth with a piece of duct tape.")
 			else
-				to_chat(user, "You cover [M]'s mouth with a piece of duct tape. That will shut them up!")
+				to_chat(user, "You cover [M]'s mouth with a piece of duct tape. That will shut [M.p_them()] up!")
 				M.visible_message("<span class='warning'>[user] tapes [M]'s mouth shut!</span>")
 			var/obj/item/clothing/mask/muzzle/G = new /obj/item/clothing/mask/muzzle/tapegag
 			M.equip_to_slot(G, slot_wear_mask)

code/game/objects/items/weapons/teleprod.dm

@@ -10,7 +10,7 @@
 	..()
 	if(status)
 		if((CLUMSY in user.mutations) && prob(50))
-			user.visible_message("<span class='danger'>[user] accidentally hits themself with [src]!</span>", \
+			user.visible_message("<span class='danger'>[user] accidentally hits [user.p_them()]self with [src]!</span>", \
 								"<span class='userdanger'>You accidentally hit yourself with [src]!</span>")
 			user.Weaken(stunforce*3)
 			deductcharge(hitcost)

code/game/objects/items/weapons/tools.dm

@@ -28,7 +28,7 @@
 	toolspeed = 1
 
 /obj/item/wrench/suicide_act(mob/user)
-	user.visible_message("<span class='suicide'>[user] is beating themselves to death with [src]! It looks like [user.p_theyre()] trying to commit suicide!</span>")
+	user.visible_message("<span class='suicide'>[user] is beating [user.p_them()]self to death with [src]! It looks like [user.p_theyre()] trying to commit suicide!</span>")
 	playsound(loc, 'sound/weapons/genhit.ogg', 50, 1, -1)
 	return (BRUTELOSS)
 

code/game/objects/items/weapons/weaponry.dm

@@ -28,7 +28,7 @@
 	attack_verb = list("attacked", "slashed", "stabbed", "sliced", "torn", "ripped", "diced", "cut")
 
 /obj/item/sord/suicide_act(mob/user)
-	user.visible_message("<span class='suicide'>[user] is trying to impale themself with [src]! It might be a suicide attempt if it weren't so shitty.</span>", \
+	user.visible_message("<span class='suicide'>[user] is trying to impale [user.p_them()]self with [src]! It might be a suicide attempt if it weren't so shitty.</span>", \
 	"<span class='suicide'>You try to impale yourself with [src], but it's USELESS...</span>")
 	return SHAME