Them

code/modules/customitems/item_defines.dm

@@ -46,7 +46,7 @@
 	var/mob/living/carbon/human/target = M
 
 	if(istype(target.species, /datum/species/machine))
-		to_chat(user, "<span class= 'notice'>[target] has no skin, how do you expect to tattoo them?</span>")
+		to_chat(user, "<span class= 'notice'>[target] has no skin, how do you expect to tattoo [target.p_them()]?</span>")
 		return
 
 	if(target.m_styles["body"] != "None")

code/modules/food_and_drinks/drinks/drinks/shotglass.dm

@@ -38,7 +38,7 @@
 /obj/item/reagent_containers/food/drinks/drinkingglass/shotglass/proc/clumsilyDrink(mob/living/carbon/human/user) //Clowns beware
 	if(burn_state != ON_FIRE)
 		return
-	user.visible_message("<span class = 'warning'>[user] pours [src] all over themself!</span>", "<span class = 'danger'>You pour [src] all over yourself!</span>", "<span class = 'warning'>You hear a 'whoompf' and a sizzle.</span>")
+	user.visible_message("<span class = 'warning'>[user] pours [src] all over [user.p_them()]self!</span>", "<span class = 'danger'>You pour [src] all over yourself!</span>", "<span class = 'warning'>You hear a 'whoompf' and a sizzle.</span>")
 	extinguish(TRUE)
 	reagents.reaction(user, TOUCH)
 	reagents.clear_reagents()

code/modules/hydroponics/grown/banana.dm

@@ -25,7 +25,7 @@
 	bitesize = 5
 
 /obj/item/reagent_containers/food/snacks/grown/banana/suicide_act(mob/user)
-	user.visible_message("<span class='suicide'>[user] is aiming the [src.name] at themself! It looks like \he's trying to commit suicide.</span>")
+	user.visible_message("<span class='suicide'>[user] is aiming the [name] at [user.p_them()]self! It looks like \he's trying to commit suicide.</span>")
 	playsound(loc, 'sound/items/bikehorn.ogg', 50, 1, -1)
 	sleep(25)
 	if(!user)

code/modules/martial_arts/martial.dm

@@ -236,7 +236,7 @@
 			if(H.staminaloss && !H.sleeping)
 				var/total_health = (H.health - H.staminaloss)
 				if(total_health <= config.health_threshold_crit && !H.stat)
-					H.visible_message("<span class='warning'>[user] delivers a heavy hit to [H]'s head, knocking them out cold!</span>", \
+					H.visible_message("<span class='warning'>[user] delivers a heavy hit to [H]'s head, knocking [H.p_them()] out cold!</span>", \
 										   "<span class='userdanger'>[user] knocks you unconscious!</span>")
 					H.SetSleeping(30)
 					H.adjustBrainLoss(25)

code/modules/mining/lavaland/loot/bubblegum_loot.dm

@@ -75,7 +75,7 @@
 		for(var/mob/living/carbon/human/H in player_list)
 			if(H == L)
 				continue
-			to_chat(H, "<span class='userdanger'>You have an overwhelming desire to kill [L]. They have been marked red! Go kill them!</span>")
+			to_chat(H, "<span class='userdanger'>You have an overwhelming desire to kill [L]. [L.p_they()] [L.p_have()] been marked red! Go kill [L.p_them()]!</span>")
 			H.put_in_hands(new /obj/item/kitchen/knife/butcher(H))
 
 	qdel(src)

code/modules/mining/lavaland/loot/hierophant_loot.dm

@@ -57,7 +57,7 @@
 		return
 	if(!rune)
 		if(isturf(user.loc))
-			user.visible_message("<span class='hierophant_warning'>[user] holds [src] carefully in front of them, moving it in a strange pattern...</span>", \
+			user.visible_message("<span class='hierophant_warning'>[user] holds [src] carefully in front of [user.p_them()], moving it in a strange pattern...</span>", \
 			"<span class='notice'>You start creating a hierophant rune to teleport to...</span>")
 			timer = world.time + 51
 			if(do_after(user, 50, target = user))
@@ -67,7 +67,7 @@
 				var/obj/effect/hierophant/H = new/obj/effect/hierophant(T)
 				rune = H
 				user.update_action_buttons_icon()
-				user.visible_message("<span class='hierophant_warning'>[user] creates a strange rune beneath them!</span>", \
+				user.visible_message("<span class='hierophant_warning'>[user] creates a strange rune beneath [user.p_them()]!</span>", \
 				"<span class='hierophant'>You create a hierophant rune, which you can teleport yourself and any allies to at any time!</span>\n\
 				<span class='notice'>You can remove the rune to place a new one by striking it with the staff.</span>")
 			else

code/modules/mob/hear_say.dm

@@ -70,7 +70,7 @@
 			if(speaker == src)
 				to_chat(src, "<span class='warning'>You cannot hear yourself speak!</span>")
 			else
-				to_chat(src, "<span class='name'>[speaker_name]</span>[alt_name] talks but you cannot hear them.")
+				to_chat(src, "<span class='name'>[speaker_name]</span>[alt_name] talks but you cannot hear [speaker.p_them()].")
 	else
 		if(language)
 			to_chat(src, "<span class='game say'><span class='name'>[speaker_name]</span>[alt_name] [track][language.format_message(message, verb)]</span>")

code/modules/mob/living/carbon/carbon.dm

@@ -745,7 +745,7 @@ var/list/ventcrawl_machinery = list(/obj/machinery/atmospherics/unary/vent_pump,
 	if(restrained())
 		changeNext_move(CLICK_CD_BREAKOUT)
 		last_special = world.time + CLICK_CD_BREAKOUT
-		visible_message("<span class='warning'>[src] attempts to unbuckle themself!</span>", \
+		visible_message("<span class='warning'>[src] attempts to unbuckle [p_them()]self!</span>", \
 					"<span class='notice'>You attempt to unbuckle yourself... (This will take around one minute and you need to stay still.)</span>")
 		if(do_after(src, 600, 0, target = src))
 			if(!buckled)
@@ -762,11 +762,11 @@ var/list/ventcrawl_machinery = list(/obj/machinery/atmospherics/unary/vent_pump,
 	Weaken(3, 1, 1) //We dont check for CANWEAKEN, I don't care how immune to weakening you are, if you're rolling on the ground, you're busy.
 	update_canmove()
 	spin(32,2)
-	visible_message("<span class='danger'>[src] rolls on the floor, trying to put themselves out!</span>", \
+	visible_message("<span class='danger'>[src] rolls on the floor, trying to put [p_them()]self out!</span>", \
 		"<span class='notice'>You stop, drop, and roll!</span>")
 	sleep(30)
 	if(fire_stacks <= 0)
-		visible_message("<span class='danger'>[src] has successfully extinguished themselves!</span>", \
+		visible_message("<span class='danger'>[src] has successfully extinguished [p_them()]self!</span>", \
 			"<span class='notice'>You extinguish yourself.</span>")
 		ExtinguishMob()
 

code/modules/mob/living/carbon/human/interactive/functions.dm

@@ -469,7 +469,7 @@
 				if(!Adjacent(SF))
 					tryWalk(get_turf(SF))
 				else
-					custom_emote(2, "[pick("gibbers","drools","slobbers","claps wildly","spits")], grabbing various foodstuffs from [SF] and sticking them in it's mouth!")
+					custom_emote(2, "[pick("gibbers","drools","slobbers","claps wildly","spits")], grabbing various foodstuffs from [SF] and sticking them in its mouth!")
 					for(var/obj/item/A in SF.contents)
 						if(prob(smartness/2))
 							var/count = SF.item_quants[A.name]

code/modules/mob/living/silicon/pai/pai.dm

@@ -599,7 +599,7 @@
 	var/mob/living/carbon/human/H = over_object //changed to human to avoid stupid issues like xenos holding pAIs.
 	if(!istype(H) || !Adjacent(H))  return ..()
 	if(usr == src)
-		switch(alert(H, "[src] wants you to pick them up. Do it?",,"Yes","No"))
+		switch(alert(H, "[src] wants you to pick [p_them()] up. Do it?",,"Yes","No"))
 			if("Yes")
 				if(Adjacent(H))
 					get_scooped(H)

code/modules/mob/living/simple_animal/hostile/megafauna/dragon.dm

@@ -229,7 +229,7 @@ Difficulty: Medium
 	playsound(src.loc, 'sound/effects/meteorimpact.ogg', 200, 1)
 	for(var/mob/living/L in orange(1, src))
 		if(L.stat)
-			visible_message("<span class='warning'>[src] slams down on [L], crushing them!</span>")
+			visible_message("<span class='warning'>[src] slams down on [L], crushing [L.p_them()]!</span>")
 			L.gib()
 		else
 			L.adjustBruteLoss(75)

code/modules/mob/living/simple_animal/hostile/terror_spiders/prince.dm

@@ -43,7 +43,7 @@
 
 /mob/living/simple_animal/hostile/poison/terror_spider/prince/spider_specialattack(mob/living/carbon/human/L)
 	if(prob(15))
-		visible_message("<span class='danger'>[src] rams into [L], knocking them to the floor!</span>")
+		visible_message("<span class='danger'>[src] rams into [L], knocking [L.p_them()] to the floor!</span>")
 		L.Weaken(5)
 		L.Stun(5)
 	else

code/modules/paperwork/paper.dm

@@ -379,7 +379,7 @@
 
 	if(is_hot(P))
 		if((CLUMSY in user.mutations) && prob(10))
-			user.visible_message("<span class='warning'>[user] accidentally ignites themselves!</span>", \
+			user.visible_message("<span class='warning'>[user] accidentally ignites [user.p_them()]self!</span>", \
 								"<span class='userdanger'>You miss the paper and accidentally light yourself on fire!</span>")
 			user.unEquip(P)
 			user.adjust_fire_stacks(1)

code/modules/paperwork/paperplane.dm

@@ -73,7 +73,7 @@
 
 	else if(is_hot(P))
 		if(user.disabilities & CLUMSY && prob(10))
-			user.visible_message("<span class='warning'>[user] accidentally ignites themselves!</span>", \
+			user.visible_message("<span class='warning'>[user] accidentally ignites [user.p_them()]self!</span>", \
 				"<span class='userdanger'>You miss [src] and accidentally light yourself on fire!</span>")
 			user.unEquip(P)
 			user.adjust_fire_stacks(1)

code/modules/projectiles/projectile/magic.dm

@@ -32,7 +32,7 @@
 		else
 			G.death()
 
-		visible_message("<span class='danger'>[G] topples backwards as the death bolt impacts them!</span>")
+		visible_message("<span class='danger'>[G] topples backwards as the death bolt impacts [G.p_them()]!</span>")
 
 /obj/item/projectile/magic/fireball/Range()
 	var/turf/T1 = get_step(src,turn(dir, -45))

code/modules/reagents/chemistry/reagents/toxins.dm

@@ -557,7 +557,7 @@
 		M.adjustBruteLoss(5)
 		M.Weaken(5)
 		M.AdjustJitter(6)
-		M.visible_message("<span class='danger'>[M] falls to the floor, scratching themselves violently!</span>")
+		M.visible_message("<span class='danger'>[M] falls to the floor, scratching [M.p_them()]self violently!</span>")
 		M.emote("scream")
 	..()