Them

code/modules/mob/hear_say.dm

@@ -70,7 +70,7 @@
 			if(speaker == src)
 				to_chat(src, "<span class='warning'>You cannot hear yourself speak!</span>")
 			else
-				to_chat(src, "<span class='name'>[speaker_name]</span>[alt_name] talks but you cannot hear them.")
+				to_chat(src, "<span class='name'>[speaker_name]</span>[alt_name] talks but you cannot hear [speaker.p_them()].")
 	else
 		if(language)
 			to_chat(src, "<span class='game say'><span class='name'>[speaker_name]</span>[alt_name] [track][language.format_message(message, verb)]</span>")

code/modules/mob/living/carbon/carbon.dm

@@ -745,7 +745,7 @@ var/list/ventcrawl_machinery = list(/obj/machinery/atmospherics/unary/vent_pump,
 	if(restrained())
 		changeNext_move(CLICK_CD_BREAKOUT)
 		last_special = world.time + CLICK_CD_BREAKOUT
-		visible_message("<span class='warning'>[src] attempts to unbuckle themself!</span>", \
+		visible_message("<span class='warning'>[src] attempts to unbuckle [p_them()]self!</span>", \
 					"<span class='notice'>You attempt to unbuckle yourself... (This will take around one minute and you need to stay still.)</span>")
 		if(do_after(src, 600, 0, target = src))
 			if(!buckled)
@@ -762,11 +762,11 @@ var/list/ventcrawl_machinery = list(/obj/machinery/atmospherics/unary/vent_pump,
 	Weaken(3, 1, 1) //We dont check for CANWEAKEN, I don't care how immune to weakening you are, if you're rolling on the ground, you're busy.
 	update_canmove()
 	spin(32,2)
-	visible_message("<span class='danger'>[src] rolls on the floor, trying to put themselves out!</span>", \
+	visible_message("<span class='danger'>[src] rolls on the floor, trying to put [p_them()]self out!</span>", \
 		"<span class='notice'>You stop, drop, and roll!</span>")
 	sleep(30)
 	if(fire_stacks <= 0)
-		visible_message("<span class='danger'>[src] has successfully extinguished themselves!</span>", \
+		visible_message("<span class='danger'>[src] has successfully extinguished [p_them()]self!</span>", \
 			"<span class='notice'>You extinguish yourself.</span>")
 		ExtinguishMob()
 

code/modules/mob/living/carbon/human/interactive/functions.dm

@@ -469,7 +469,7 @@
 				if(!Adjacent(SF))
 					tryWalk(get_turf(SF))
 				else
-					custom_emote(2, "[pick("gibbers","drools","slobbers","claps wildly","spits")], grabbing various foodstuffs from [SF] and sticking them in it's mouth!")
+					custom_emote(2, "[pick("gibbers","drools","slobbers","claps wildly","spits")], grabbing various foodstuffs from [SF] and sticking them in its mouth!")
 					for(var/obj/item/A in SF.contents)
 						if(prob(smartness/2))
 							var/count = SF.item_quants[A.name]

code/modules/mob/living/silicon/pai/pai.dm

@@ -599,7 +599,7 @@
 	var/mob/living/carbon/human/H = over_object //changed to human to avoid stupid issues like xenos holding pAIs.
 	if(!istype(H) || !Adjacent(H))  return ..()
 	if(usr == src)
-		switch(alert(H, "[src] wants you to pick them up. Do it?",,"Yes","No"))
+		switch(alert(H, "[src] wants you to pick [p_them()] up. Do it?",,"Yes","No"))
 			if("Yes")
 				if(Adjacent(H))
 					get_scooped(H)

code/modules/mob/living/simple_animal/hostile/megafauna/dragon.dm

@@ -229,7 +229,7 @@ Difficulty: Medium
 	playsound(src.loc, 'sound/effects/meteorimpact.ogg', 200, 1)
 	for(var/mob/living/L in orange(1, src))
 		if(L.stat)
-			visible_message("<span class='warning'>[src] slams down on [L], crushing them!</span>")
+			visible_message("<span class='warning'>[src] slams down on [L], crushing [L.p_them()]!</span>")
 			L.gib()
 		else
 			L.adjustBruteLoss(75)

code/modules/mob/living/simple_animal/hostile/terror_spiders/prince.dm

@@ -43,7 +43,7 @@
 
 /mob/living/simple_animal/hostile/poison/terror_spider/prince/spider_specialattack(mob/living/carbon/human/L)
 	if(prob(15))
-		visible_message("<span class='danger'>[src] rams into [L], knocking them to the floor!</span>")
+		visible_message("<span class='danger'>[src] rams into [L], knocking [L.p_them()] to the floor!</span>")
 		L.Weaken(5)
 		L.Stun(5)
 	else