Merge pull request #16889 from Kashargul/droppingPartTwo

properly forwards the user on dropped

code/game/objects/items/weapons/candle.dm

@@ -58,7 +58,7 @@
 	if(!wax)
 		new/obj/item/trash/candle(src.loc)
 		if(istype(src.loc, /mob))
-			src.dropped()
+			src.dropped(src.loc)
 		qdel(src)
 	update_icon()
 	if(istype(loc, /turf)) //start a fire if possible

code/game/objects/items/weapons/handcuffs.dm

@@ -311,12 +311,12 @@ var/last_chew = 0
 
 	var/mob/living/carbon/human/H = target
 	if(!istype(H))
-		src.dropped()
+		src.dropped(user)
 		return 0
 
 	if(!H.has_organ_for_slot(slot_legcuffed))
 		H.visible_message(span_infoplain(span_bold("\The [src]") + " slams into [H], but slides off!"))
-		src.dropped()
+		src.dropped(user)
 		return 0
 
 	H.visible_message(span_danger("\The [H] has been snared by \the [src]!"))