reimplements attack and player logs (#19313)

* reomplements attack and player logs

* right log cat

* updates logging, makesDB optional

* regex serarch

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* db load

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* db logging

code/modules/admin/verbs/antag-ooc.dm

@@ -39,4 +39,4 @@
 			if((M.mind && M.mind.special_role && A && A.can_hear_aooc) || isobserver(M)) // Antags must have their type be allowed to AOOC to see AOOC.  This prevents, say, ERT from seeing AOOC.
 				to_chat(M, span_ooc(span_aooc("[create_text_tag("aooc", "Antag-OOC:", M.client)] <EM>[player_display]:</EM> " + span_message("[msg]"))))
 
-	src.mob.log_talk("(AOOC) [msg]", LOG_OOC)
+	src.mob.log_talk("(AOOC) [msg]", LOG_OOC, color="#ff0000")

code/modules/admin/verbs/check_customitem_activity.dm

@@ -31,7 +31,6 @@ GLOBAL_VAR_INIT(inactive_keys, "None<br>")
 	if(GLOB.checked_for_inactives)
 		return
 
-	establish_db_connection()
 	if(!SSdbcore.IsConnected())
 		return
 

code/modules/admin/verbs/dbcon_fix.dm

@@ -15,7 +15,6 @@
 	else
 		log_admin("Database already disconnected")
 
-	establish_db_connection()
 	var/errno = SSdbcore.ErrorMsg()
 	if(errno)
 		log_admin("Database connection returned error message `[errno]`. Aborting.")