Feeding works! aaaaayyy. Didn't have to martial art it either

modular_citadel/code/modules/mob/living/carbon/carbon.dm

@@ -43,8 +43,6 @@ mob/living/carbon/proc/toggle_vore_mode()
 	if(combatmode)
 		return FALSE //let's not override the main draw of the game these days
 	voremode = !voremode
-	if(client)
-		client.show_popup_menus = !voremode // it's the RIGHT way to nom. gettit
 	if(hud_used && hud_used.static_inventory)
 		for(var/obj/screen/voretoggle/selector in hud_used.static_inventory)
 			selector.rebaseintomygut(src)

modular_citadel/code/modules/mob/living/carbon/human/human_defense.dm

@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 /mob/living/carbon/human/grabbedby(mob/living/carbon/user, supress_message = 0)
 	if(user == src && pulling && !pulling.anchored && grab_state >= GRAB_AGGRESSIVE && isliving(pulling))
-		vore_attack(user, pulling)
+		vore_attack(user, pulling, user) //feeding prey to self
 	else
 		..()