[MIRROR] *Me invoked via verb defaults to visible | audible, rather than just audible (#27767)

* `*Me` invoked via verb defaults to visible | audible, rather than just audible (#83283)

## About The Pull Request

`*me` emotes invoked via the verb (or TGUI say) now default to visible |
audible, rather than just audible

Also adds a description on how to set your `*me` emotes to the verb.
(Doesn't work for TGUI say unfortunately)

## Why It's Good For The Game

I don't know why these are set to audible by default, that's just kinda
weird considering 95% of custom emotes are not audible

Both is best of both worlds, ensures deaf and blind people can see their
own custom emotes at the very least.

## Changelog

🆑 Melbert
qol: Custom emotes now default to both visible and audible rather than
just audible
qol: Invoking the custom emote verb now explains how to set your custom
emote to visible or audible
/🆑

* `*Me` invoked via verb defaults to visible | audible, rather than just audible

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Co-authored-by: MrMelbert <51863163+MrMelbert@users.noreply.github.com>

code/modules/mob/mob_say.dm

@@ -42,6 +42,7 @@
 /mob/verb/me_verb(message as text)
 	set name = "Me"
 	set category = "IC"
+	set desc = "Perform a custom emote. Leave blank to pick between an audible or a visible emote (Defaults to visible)."
 
 	if(GLOB.say_disabled) //This is here to try to identify lag problems
 		to_chat(usr, span_danger("Speech is currently admin-disabled."))
@@ -49,7 +50,7 @@
 
 	message = trim(copytext_char(sanitize(message), 1, MAX_MESSAGE_LEN))
 
-	QUEUE_OR_CALL_VERB_FOR(VERB_CALLBACK(src, TYPE_PROC_REF(/mob, emote), "me", 1, message, TRUE), SSspeech_controller)
+	QUEUE_OR_CALL_VERB_FOR(VERB_CALLBACK(src, TYPE_PROC_REF(/mob, emote), "me", EMOTE_VISIBLE|EMOTE_AUDIBLE, message, TRUE), SSspeech_controller)
 
 /mob/try_speak(message, ignore_spam = FALSE, forced = null, filterproof = FALSE)
 	var/list/filter_result