Makes the pronoun helper proc names less horrifyingly long (#20780)

* why were these so LONG, what the fuck

* gosh

* pronoun agenda
the true agenda is killing coiax's squished lines

code/modules/research/message_server.dm

@@ -114,7 +114,6 @@ var/global/list/obj/machinery/message_server/message_servers = list()
 	rc_msgs += new/datum/data_rc_msg(recipient,sender,message,stamp,id_auth)
 
 /obj/machinery/message_server/attack_hand(mob/user)
-//	user << "\blue There seem to be some parts missing from this server. They should arrive on the station in a few days, give or take a few Centcom delays."
 	user << "You toggle PDA message passing from [active ? "On" : "Off"] to [active ? "Off" : "On"]"
 	active = !active
 	update_icon()

code/modules/research/xenobiology/xenobiology.dm

@@ -194,7 +194,7 @@
 		SM.mind.enslave_mind_to_creator(user)
 		SM.sentience_act()
 		SM << "<span class='warning'>All at once it makes sense: you know what you are and who you are! Self awareness is yours!</span>"
-		SM << "<span class='userdanger'>You are grateful to be self aware and owe [user] a great debt. Serve [user], and assist [user.them_pronoun()] in completing [user.their_pronoun()] goals at any cost.</span>"
+		SM << "<span class='userdanger'>You are grateful to be self aware and owe [user] a great debt. Serve [user], and assist [user.p_them()] in completing [user.p_their()] goals at any cost.</span>"
 		user << "<span class='notice'>[SM] accepts the potion and suddenly becomes attentive and aware. It worked!</span>"
 		qdel(src)
 	else