fixes the runtimes

code/__DEFINES/flags.dm

@@ -22,6 +22,8 @@
 #define BLOCK_GAS_SMOKE_EFFECT	8192	// blocks the effect that chemical clouds would have on a mob --glasses, mask and helmets ONLY!
 #define THICKMATERIAL 			8192	//prevents syringes, parapens and hypos if the external suit or helmet (if targeting head) has this flag. Example: space suits, biosuit, bombsuits, thick suits that cover your body. (NOTE: flag shared with BLOCK_GAS_SMOKE_EFFECT)
 
+#define DROPDEL					16384	// When dropped, it calls qdel on itself
+
 //Reagent flags
 #define REAGENT_NOREACT			1
 

code/_onclick/telekinesis.dm

@@ -62,9 +62,9 @@ var/const/tk_maxrange = 15
 	desc = "Magic"
 	icon = 'icons/obj/magic.dmi'//Needs sprites
 	icon_state = "2"
-	flags = NOBLUDGEON | ABSTRACT
+	flags = NOBLUDGEON | ABSTRACT | DROPDEL
 	//item_state = null
-	w_class = 10
+	w_class = WEIGHT_CLASS_GIGANTIC
 	layer = 20
 	plane = HUD_PLANE
 
@@ -82,9 +82,8 @@ var/const/tk_maxrange = 15
 /obj/item/tk_grab/dropped(mob/user)
 	if(focus && user && loc != user && loc != user.loc) // drop_item() gets called when you tk-attack a table/closet with an item
 		if(focus.Adjacent(loc))
-			focus.loc = loc
-
-	qdel(src)
+			focus.forceMove(loc)
+	. = ..()
 
 
 	//stops TK grabs being equipped anywhere but into hands

code/game/gamemodes/changeling/powers/mutations.dm

@@ -125,7 +125,7 @@
 	icon = 'icons/obj/weapons.dmi'
 	icon_state = "arm_blade"
 	item_state = "arm_blade"
-	flags = ABSTRACT | NODROP
+	flags = ABSTRACT | NODROP | DROPDEL
 	w_class = WEIGHT_CLASS_HUGE
 	sharp = 1
 	force = 25
@@ -140,7 +140,7 @@
 
 /obj/item/weapon/melee/arm_blade/dropped(mob/user)
 	user.visible_message("<span class='warning'>With a sickening crunch, [user] reforms his blade into an arm!</span>", "<span class='notice'>We assimilate the blade back into our body.</span>", "<span class='warning>You hear organic matter ripping and tearing!</span>")
-	qdel(src)
+	. = ..()
 
 /obj/item/weapon/melee/arm_blade/afterattack(atom/target, mob/user, proximity)
 	if(!proximity)
@@ -199,7 +199,7 @@
 	icon = 'icons/obj/weapons.dmi'
 	icon_state = "tentacle"
 	item_state = "tentacle"
-	flags = ABSTRACT | NODROP | NOBLUDGEON
+	flags = ABSTRACT | NODROP | NOBLUDGEON | DROPDEL
 	w_class = WEIGHT_CLASS_HUGE
 	ammo_type = /obj/item/ammo_casing/magic/tentacle
 	fire_sound = 'sound/effects/splat.ogg'
@@ -217,10 +217,6 @@
 		else
 			to_chat(loc, "<span class='notice'>You prepare to extend a tentacle.</span>")
 
-/obj/item/weapon/gun/magic/tentacle/dropped()
-	. = ..()
-	qdel(src)
-
 /obj/item/weapon/gun/magic/tentacle/shoot_with_empty_chamber(mob/living/user as mob|obj)
 	to_chat(user, "<span class='warning'>The [name] is not ready yet.<span>")
 
@@ -377,7 +373,7 @@
 /obj/item/weapon/shield/changeling
 	name = "shield-like mass"
 	desc = "A mass of tough, boney tissue. You can still see the fingers as a twisted pattern in the shield."
-	flags = NODROP
+	flags = NODROP | DROPDEL
 	icon = 'icons/obj/weapons.dmi'
 	icon_state = "ling_shield"
 	block_chance = 50
@@ -389,9 +385,6 @@
 	if(ismob(loc))
 		loc.visible_message("<span class='warning'>The end of [loc.name]\'s hand inflates rapidly, forming a huge shield-like mass!</span>", "<span class='warning'>We inflate our hand into a strong shield.</span>", "<span class='warning'>You hear organic matter ripping and tearing!</span>")
 
-/obj/item/weapon/shield/changeling/dropped()
-	qdel(src)
-
 /obj/item/weapon/shield/changeling/hit_reaction()
 	if(remaining_uses < 1)
 		if(ishuman(loc))
@@ -429,7 +422,7 @@
 	name = "flesh mass"
 	icon_state = "lingspacesuit"
 	desc = "A huge, bulky mass of pressure and temperature-resistant organic tissue, evolved to facilitate space travel."
-	flags = STOPSPRESSUREDMAGE | NODROP
+	flags = STOPSPRESSUREDMAGE | NODROP | DROPDEL
 	allowed = list(/obj/item/device/flashlight, /obj/item/weapon/tank/emergency_oxygen, /obj/item/weapon/tank/oxygen)
 	armor = list(melee = 0, bullet = 0, laser = 0, energy = 0, bomb = 0, bio = 0, rad = 0) //No armor at all.
 
@@ -439,9 +432,6 @@
 		loc.visible_message("<span class='warning'>[loc.name]\'s flesh rapidly inflates, forming a bloated mass around their body!</span>", "<span class='warning'>We inflate our flesh, creating a spaceproof suit!</span>", "<span class='warning'>You hear organic matter ripping and tearing!</span>")
 	processing_objects += src
 
-/obj/item/clothing/suit/space/changeling/dropped()
-	qdel(src)
-
 /obj/item/clothing/suit/space/changeling/process()
 	if(ishuman(loc))
 		var/mob/living/carbon/human/H = loc
@@ -451,12 +441,9 @@
 	name = "flesh mass"
 	icon_state = "lingspacehelmet"
 	desc = "A covering of pressure and temperature-resistant organic tissue with a glass-like chitin front."
-	flags = BLOCKHAIR | STOPSPRESSUREDMAGE | NODROP
+	flags = BLOCKHAIR | STOPSPRESSUREDMAGE | NODROP | DROPDEL
 	armor = list(melee = 0, bullet = 0, laser = 0, energy = 0, bomb = 0, bio = 0, rad = 0)
 
-/obj/item/clothing/head/helmet/space/changeling/dropped()
-	qdel(src)
-
 
 /***************************************\
 |*****************ARMOR*****************|
@@ -481,7 +468,7 @@
 	name = "chitinous mass"
 	desc = "A tough, hard covering of black chitin."
 	icon_state = "lingarmor"
-	flags = NODROP
+	flags = NODROP | DROPDEL
 	body_parts_covered = UPPER_TORSO|LOWER_TORSO|LEGS|FEET|ARMS|HANDS
 	armor = list(melee = 40, bullet = 40, laser = 40, energy = 20, bomb = 10, bio = 4, rad = 0)
 	flags_inv = HIDEJUMPSUIT
@@ -495,16 +482,10 @@
 	if(ismob(loc))
 		loc.visible_message("<span class='warning'>[loc.name]\'s flesh turns black, quickly transforming into a hard, chitinous mass!</span>", "<span class='warning'>We harden our flesh, creating a suit of armor!</span>", "<span class='warning'>You hear organic matter ripping and tearing!</span>")
 
-/obj/item/clothing/suit/armor/changeling/dropped()
-	qdel(src)
-
 /obj/item/clothing/head/helmet/changeling
 	name = "chitinous mass"
 	desc = "A tough, hard covering of black chitin with transparent chitin in front."
 	icon_state = "lingarmorhelmet"
-	flags = BLOCKHAIR | NODROP
+	flags = BLOCKHAIR | NODROP | DROPDEL
 	armor = list(melee = 30, bullet = 30, laser = 40, energy = 20, bomb = 10, bio = 4, rad = 0)
-	flags_inv = HIDEEARS
-
-/obj/item/clothing/head/helmet/changeling/dropped()
-	qdel(src)
+	flags_inv = HIDEEARS

code/game/gamemodes/cult/cult_items.dm

@@ -361,32 +361,16 @@
 /obj/item/weapon/melee/cultblade/ghost
 	name = "eldritch sword"
 	force = 15
-	flags = NODROP
-
-/obj/item/weapon/melee/cultblade/ghost/dropped(mob/living/carbon/human/user)
-	..()
-	qdel(src)
+	flags = NODROP | DROPDEL
 
 /obj/item/clothing/head/culthood/alt/ghost
-	flags = NODROP
-
-/obj/item/clothing/head/culthood/alt/ghost/dropped(mob/living/carbon/human/user)
-	..()
-	qdel(src)
+	flags = NODROP | DROPDEL
 
 /obj/item/clothing/suit/cultrobes/alt/ghost
-	flags = NODROP
-
-/obj/item/clothing/suit/cultrobes/alt/ghost/dropped(mob/living/carbon/human/user)
-	..()
-	qdel(src)
+	flags = NODROP | DROPDEL
 
 /obj/item/clothing/shoes/cult/ghost
-	flags = NODROP
-
-/obj/item/clothing/shoes/cult/ghost/dropped(mob/living/carbon/human/user)
-	..()
-	qdel(src)
+	flags = NODROP | DROPDEL
 
 /datum/outfit/ghost_cultist
 	name = "Cultist Ghost"

code/game/gamemodes/cult/talisman.dm

@@ -412,7 +412,11 @@
 	trashtype = /obj/item/weapon/restraints/handcuffs/energy/used
 	origin_tech = "materials=2;magnets=5"
 
+/obj/item/weapon/restraints/handcuffs/energy/used
+	desc = "energy discharge"
+	flags = DROPDEL
+
 /obj/item/weapon/restraints/handcuffs/energy/cult/used/dropped(mob/user)
 	user.visible_message("<span class='danger'>[user]'s shackles shatter in a discharge of dark magic!</span>", \
 							"<span class='userdanger'>Your [src] shatters in a discharge of dark magic!</span>")
-	qdel(src)
+	. = ..()

code/game/gamemodes/miniantags/abduction/abduction_gear.dm

@@ -454,6 +454,7 @@ Congratulations! You are now trained for invasive xenobiology research!"}
 
 /obj/item/weapon/restraints/handcuffs/energy/used
 	desc = "energy discharge"
+	flags = DROPDEL
 
 /obj/item/weapon/restraints/handcuffs/energy/used/dropped(mob/user)
 	user.visible_message("<span class='danger'>[user]'s [src] break in a discharge of energy!</span>", \
@@ -461,7 +462,7 @@ Congratulations! You are now trained for invasive xenobiology research!"}
 	var/datum/effect_system/spark_spread/S = new
 	S.set_up(4,0,user.loc)
 	S.start()
-	qdel(src)
+	. = ..()
 
 /obj/item/weapon/abductor_baton/examine(mob/user)
 	..()

code/game/gamemodes/wizard/godhand.dm

@@ -7,7 +7,7 @@
 	icon = 'icons/obj/weapons.dmi'
 	icon_state = "syndballoon"
 	item_state = null
-	flags = ABSTRACT | NODROP
+	flags = ABSTRACT | NODROP | DROPDEL
 	w_class = WEIGHT_CLASS_HUGE
 	force = 0
 	throwforce = 0
@@ -32,10 +32,10 @@
 	attached_spell.attached_hand = null
 	qdel(src)
 
-/obj/item/weapon/melee/touch_attack/dropped()
+/obj/item/weapon/melee/touch_attack/Destroy()
 	if(attached_spell)
 		attached_spell.attached_hand = null
-	qdel(src)
+	return ..()
 
 /obj/item/weapon/melee/touch_attack/disintegrate
 	name = "disintegrating touch"

code/game/objects/items.dm

@@ -101,6 +101,7 @@ var/global/image/fire_overlay = image("icon" = 'icons/goonstation/effects/fire.d
 		new path(src)
 
 /obj/item/Destroy()
+	flags &= ~DROPDEL	//prevent reqdels
 	QDEL_NULL(hidden_uplink)
 	if(ismob(loc))
 		var/mob/m = loc
@@ -317,6 +318,8 @@ var/global/image/fire_overlay = image("icon" = 'icons/goonstation/effects/fire.d
 	for(var/X in actions)
 		var/datum/action/A = X
 		A.Remove(user)
+	if(DROPDEL & flags)
+		qdel(src)
 
 // called just as an item is picked up (loc is not yet changed)
 /obj/item/proc/pickup(mob/user)

code/game/objects/items/weapons/chrono_eraser.dm

@@ -47,7 +47,7 @@
 	icon_state = "chronogun"
 	item_state = "chronogun"
 	w_class = WEIGHT_CLASS_NORMAL
-	flags = NODROP
+	flags = NODROP | DROPDEL
 	ammo_type = list(/obj/item/ammo_casing/energy/chrono_beam)
 	can_charge = 0
 	fire_delay = 50
@@ -63,10 +63,6 @@
 		TED = new(src.loc)
 		qdel(src)
 
-/obj/item/weapon/gun/energy/chrono_gun/dropped()
-	..()
-	qdel(src)
-
 /obj/item/weapon/gun/energy/chrono_gun/update_icon()
 	return
 

code/game/objects/items/weapons/holy_weapons.dm

@@ -70,7 +70,7 @@
 	icon_state = "disintegrate"
 	item_state = "disintegrate"
 	desc = "This hand of yours glows with an awesome power!"
-	flags = ABSTRACT | NODROP
+	flags = ABSTRACT | NODROP| DROPDEL
 	w_class = WEIGHT_CLASS_HUGE
 	hitsound = 'sound/weapons/sear.ogg'
 	damtype = BURN

code/game/objects/items/weapons/implants/implant.dm

@@ -11,6 +11,7 @@
 	item_color = "b"
 	var/allow_multiple = 0
 	var/uses = -1
+	flags = DROPDEL
 
 
 /obj/item/weapon/implant/proc/trigger(emote, mob/source)
@@ -82,6 +83,5 @@
 	return "No information available"
 
 /obj/item/weapon/implant/dropped(mob/user)
-	..()
 	. = 1
-	qdel(src)
+	..()

code/game/objects/items/weapons/legcuffs.dm

@@ -128,19 +128,18 @@
 	armed = 1
 	icon_state = "e_snare"
 	trap_damage = 0
+	flags = DROPDEL
 
 /obj/item/weapon/restraints/legcuffs/beartrap/energy/New()
 	..()
-	spawn(100)
-		if(!istype(loc, /mob))
-			var/datum/effect_system/spark_spread/sparks = new /datum/effect_system/spark_spread
-			sparks.set_up(1, 1, src)
-			sparks.start()
-			qdel(src)
+	addtimer(src, "dissipate", 100)
 
-/obj/item/weapon/restraints/legcuffs/beartrap/energy/dropped()
-	..()
-	qdel(src)
+/obj/item/weapon/restraints/legcuffs/beartrap/energy/proc/dissipate()
+	if(!ismob(loc))
+		var/datum/effect_system/spark_spread/sparks = new /datum/effect_system/spark_spread
+		sparks.set_up(1, 1, src)
+		sparks.start()
+		qdel(src)
 
 /obj/item/weapon/restraints/legcuffs/beartrap/energy/attack_hand(mob/user)
 	Crossed(user) //honk

code/game/objects/items/weapons/twohanded.dm

@@ -79,7 +79,6 @@
 	var/obj/item/weapon/twohanded/offhand/O = new(user) ////Let's reserve his other hand~
 	O.name = "[name] - offhand"
 	O.desc = "Your second grip on the [name]"
-	O.wielded = TRUE
 	user.put_in_inactive_hand(O)
 	return
 
@@ -115,18 +114,12 @@
 	name = "offhand"
 	flags = ABSTRACT
 
-/obj/item/weapon/twohanded/offhand/Destroy()
-	wielded = FALSE
-	return ..()
-
 /obj/item/weapon/twohanded/offhand/unwield()
-	if(wielded)//Only delete if we're wielded
-		wielded = FALSE
+	if(!QDELETED(src))
 		qdel(src)
 
 /obj/item/weapon/twohanded/offhand/wield()
-	if(wielded)//Only delete if we're wielded
-		wielded = FALSE
+	if(!QDELETED(src))
 		qdel(src)
 
 ///////////Two hand required objects///////////////

code/modules/clothing/masks/miscellaneous.dm

@@ -94,6 +94,7 @@
 	w_class = WEIGHT_CLASS_TINY
 	resist_time = 150
 	mute = MUTE_MUFFLE
+	flags = DROPDEL
 	species_fit = list("Vox", "Unathi", "Tajaran", "Vulpkanin", "Grey")
 	sprite_sheets = list(
 		"Vox" = 'icons/mob/species/vox/mask.dmi',
@@ -109,9 +110,8 @@
 	R.loc = T
 	transfer_fingerprints_to(R)
 	playsound(src,'sound/items/poster_ripped.ogg',40,1)
-	spawn(0) // Because of how dropping is done, if the muzzle gets deleted now, icons won't properly update and the whole unEquip() proc will break stuff.
-		qdel(src) // This makes sure it gets deleted AFTER all that has to be done is done.
-		user.emote("scream")
+	user.emote("scream")
+	. = ..()
 
 /obj/item/clothing/mask/muzzle/safety
 	name = "safety muzzle"

code/modules/mob/living/simple_animal/tribbles.dm

@@ -93,13 +93,13 @@ var/global/totaltribbles = 0   //global variable so it updates for all tribbles,
 	item_state = "tribble1"
 	w_class = 10
 	var/gestation = 0
+	flags = DROPDEL
 
 /obj/item/toy/tribble/attack_self(mob/user as mob) //hug that tribble (and play a sound if we add one)
 	..()
 	to_chat(user, "<span class='notice'>You nuzzle the tribble and it trills softly.</span>")
 
 /obj/item/toy/tribble/dropped(mob/user as mob) //now you can't item form them to get rid of them all so easily
-	..()
 	new /mob/living/simple_animal/tribble(user.loc)
 	for(var/mob/living/simple_animal/tribble/T in user.loc)
 		T.icon_state = src.icon_state
@@ -108,7 +108,7 @@ var/global/totaltribbles = 0   //global variable so it updates for all tribbles,
 		T.gestation = src.gestation
 
 	to_chat(user, "<span class='notice'>The tribble gets up and wanders around.</span>")
-	qdel(src)
+	. = ..()
 
 /obj/item/toy/tribble/attackby(var/obj/item/weapon/O as obj, var/mob/user as mob) //neutering and un-neutering
 	..()

code/modules/mob/mob_grab.dm

@@ -434,7 +434,8 @@
 	return EAT_TIME_FAT //if it doesn't fit into the above, it's probably a fat guy, take EAT_TIME_FAT to do it
 
 /obj/item/weapon/grab/dropped()
-	qdel(src)
+	if(!QDELETED(src))
+		qdel(src)
 
 
 /obj/item/weapon/grab/Destroy()