i feel like this is a really stupid way to fix it

code/datums/components/riding.dm

@@ -162,12 +162,12 @@
 		if(!Process_Spacemove(direction) || !isturf(AM.loc))
 			return
 		step(AM, direction)
-		
+
 		if((direction & (direction - 1)) && (AM.loc == next))		//moved diagonally
 			last_move_diagonal = TRUE
 		else
 			last_move_diagonal = FALSE
-		
+
 		handle_vehicle_layer()
 		handle_vehicle_offsets()
 	else
@@ -234,7 +234,7 @@
 		return list(TEXT_NORTH = list(0, 6), TEXT_SOUTH = list(0, 6), TEXT_EAST = list(0, 6), TEXT_WEST = list(0, 6))
 	else
 		return list(TEXT_NORTH = list(0, 6), TEXT_SOUTH = list(0, 6), TEXT_EAST = list(-6, 4), TEXT_WEST = list( 6, 4))
-	
+
 
 /datum/component/riding/human/force_dismount(mob/living/user)
 	var/atom/movable/AM = parent

code/game/objects/buckling.dm

@@ -89,6 +89,7 @@
 		buckled_mob.clear_alert("buckled")
 		buckled_mobs -= buckled_mob
 		SEND_SIGNAL(src, COMSIG_MOVABLE_UNBUCKLE, buckled_mob, force)
+		SEND_SIGNAL(src, COMSIG_MOVABLE_UNBUCKLE, src, force)
 
 		post_unbuckle_mob(.)
 

code/modules/mob/living/carbon/human/human.dm

@@ -865,7 +865,7 @@
 			piggyback(target)
 			return
 		//If you dragged them to you and you're aggressively grabbing try to fireman carry them
-		else if(user != target && can_be_firemanned(target))
+		else if(user != target)
 			fireman_carry(target)
 			return
 	. = ..()